Why doesn't SQL support "= null" instead of "is null"?

Question

I'm not asking if it does. I know that it doesn't.

I'm curious as to the reason. I've read support docs such as as this one on Working With Nulls in MySQL but they don't really give any reason. They only repeat the mantra that you have to use "is null" instead.

This has always bothered me. When doing dynamic SQL (those rare times when it has to be done) it would be so much easier to pass "null" into where clause like this:

@where = "where GroupId = null"

Which would be a simple replacement for a regular variable. Instead we have to use if/else blocks to do stuff like:

if @groupId is null then
     @where = "where GroupId is null"
else
     @where = "where GroupId = @groupId"
end

In larger more-complicated queries, this is a huge pain in the neck. Is there a specific reason that SQL and all the major RDBMS vendors don't allow this? Some kind of keyword conflict or value conflict that it would create?

Edit:

The problem with a lot of the answers (in my opinion) is that everyone is setting up an equivalency between null and "I don't know what the value is". There's a huge difference between those two things. If null meant "there's a value but it's unknown" I would 100% agree that nulls couldn't be equal. But SQL null doesn't mean that. It means that there is no value. Any two SQL results that are null both have no value. No value does not equal unknown value. Two different things. That's an important distinction.

Edit 2:

The other problem I have is that other HLLs allow null=null perfectly fine and resolve it appropriately. In C# for instance, null=null returns true.

Answer 1

The reason why it's off by default is that null is really not equal to null in a business sense. For example, if you were joining orders and customers:

select * from orders o join customers c on c.name = o.customer_name

It wouldn't make a lot of sense to match orders with an unknown customer with customers with an unknown name.

Most databases allow you to customize this behaviour. For example, in SQL Server:

set ansi_nulls on
if null = null  
    print 'this will not print' 
set ansi_nulls off
if null = null  
    print 'this should print'